Strumming On: How to Beat the Common Guitar Player's Slump

George Francis-Merry • September 9, 2025

You know the feeling. You buy a guitar, full of hope and big dreams. Maybe you imagine yourself playing "Stairway to Heaven" by Led Zeppelin or "Wonderwall" by Oasis. You learn a few chords, and it's exciting. Then, a few weeks or months go by, and your guitar starts collecting dust in the corner. You're not alone; it's a tale as old as time for adult learners. So, what's the secret to not giving up? It’s not about talent, it's about shifting your mindset.


Myth #1: If I'm Not Making Rapid Progress, I'm Doing Something Wrong


This is the biggest hurdle most people face. We live in a world of instant gratification, so we expect to see huge improvements every time we pick up the guitar. When we don't, we start to doubt ourselves. We think, "Maybe I'm just not musically inclined," or "I'm not built for this."


The reality is that progress isn't a straight line that goes ever upward. It's more like a series of plateaus with sudden leaps forward. You'll spend weeks on a riff or chord transition that feels impossible, and then one day, it just clicks. That moment of clarity is the payoff for all the hard work you put in.


The key is to celebrate the small victories. Did you nail that tricky chord change? Did you play through an entire song without stopping? Did your fingers not ache as much as they did last week? These are all signs of progress, and they deserve to be recognized.


Myth #2: I’ll Never Sound as Good as My Heroes


This myth is a creativity killer. It sets an impossible standard and makes you feel like a failure before you even start. Comparing your beginner strumming to the decades of practice and performance by your favorite guitarists is like comparing a tricycle to a race car.


The reality is that the goal isn’t to become the next Eric Clapton or Joan Jett. The goal is to find joy in your own musical journey. Your voice, your style, and your sound are unique. The beauty of learning an instrument is discovering what you have to say with it. So, let go of the need to be a rock star and focus on finding your own sound.


The Unseen Benefits of Sticking With It


Learning an instrument is so much more than just a hobby; it's a masterclass in life skills. It teaches you patience, persistence, and mental fortitude. When you can stick with something challenging like learning the guitar, you build a powerful sense of resilience. This skill will serve you well in every area of your life, from your career to your relationships. It's the ability to push through discomfort and come out on the other side stronger.


If you’re ready to trade in the dusty guitar for a new practice plan, we can help. We can work together to create a personalized plan that fits your goals and your life. We'll also provide the accountability you need to avoid burnout and stay on track.


Ready to get strumming again? Book a lesson today, and let's find the joy in your musical journey together.


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